Solange Style: Are Juxtaposition Photos the New Thing

What happens when you get a group of friends staggering about in random fabrics and prints in one big photo? Chic happens, that’s what. This type of posing is a blend between Sex and the city marriage scene (notice the hard contrast) and Solange’s famous wedding photo (regarding their poses) very spacey, but yet uniform.

Location: Viceroy Hotel, Santa Monica California

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Carrie Bradshaw wedding from sex and the city

Try it at your next girlfriend gathering! You just kind of stagger about into a position and pose. Also, try not to be so matchy matchy. Remember hard contrast. Keep Jux!

Get My Look: What To Wear to a Day Meeting in Los Angeles on a Weekend

One may be overwhelmed with anxiety on what to wear to a meeting on the weekend in perhaps one of the most trendiest cities around, Los Angeles. No fret, your friendly stylist is here to help. oh, I almost forgot, I also have the sweetest secret on how you can save a little, but still say a lot with the perfect purchase. hint: The dress I’m wearing

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Remember it’s almost always in the details. A plain nice A-Line dress similar to the one pictured above will do the trick. If you look closely there is only one detail on the vest like dress which is a golden clasp. The dress mainly stands out because of its perfected lines. Assembling a deep V plunge, but not to deep where it is still considered modest and classy. The band around the waist accentuates the mid section without overly hugging the curves. Designer Calvin Klein did well to create an illusion of a split by dividing the pieces. The diagonal cross front adds attitude, interest, and style. However, for this occasion the most important thing about this dress is the length.  Short enough to enjoy the day, long enough to say professional.  This dress is a great go to for many occasions. You can even add a nice sleeve underneath or wear it unzipped and open as a vest over your other two piece ensembles. (ex. Pants and shirt, skirt and blouse)

The Big Secret: This dress was originally 140.00 USD, but I was able to snag it for 30.00 in my local Ross Department store. I’m not much of thrifty, but I do love a nice department roam from time to time. It’s usually a hit and miss, but when it’s a hit it’s a really big one!

Designer: Calvin Klein

I would love to give more details about the dress, but since I bought it “out of season” I’m unable to provided much more.

The details:

I paired the dress with this season’s Gucci Slides and sling bag with a Guess watch. All Accessories have a hint of gold which in my case worked really well sense the dress is null in color and in prints. However I wore silver hoops to play off of the subtlety of the white. This is just one way you can style it. Heels and a handle bag would work just the same, but on the weekend during brunch hours I wanted to keep comfort in mind. Not to forget La’s Parking.

Three Things to Remember when buying your dress:

  1. Lines
  2. Length
  3. Quality (Better to buy out of season quality then spend on flimsy fabrics)

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Teaser Alert: The Desert Collection by Cartamebii Private Viewing and What to Expect This Season

Don’t you just love it when it’s a good day and things go accordingly? Well, yesterday I had the pleasure of meeting with decor designer and owner of Cartamebii designs, Tamara Lipscomb. Swept away by her brush stroke collection last winter which featured bright saturated primes blended to perfection on pillows, clocks, and many other fixtures. So attracted to her hand sculpts and beautiful eye for design, I assured her that as soon as I moved into my new home her pieces would be eagerly requested.

You know, to add a little designers twist. Fancy my pansy shall we. Sips tea, raises pinky.

Well the time has come, I’m moving and she has a new collection on the brink! Yesterday, she invited me to a private viewing to see what I liked and to share with my viewers of my blog. I know, super exciting!  Here’s a teaser of what to expect:

Cartamebii Collection

Delicate Wall Hangings

Cartamebii Collection: Pinterest Inspiration board 
Cartamebii Colletion 

Copper tones made with plant based dye

This collection has me extremely excited because it’s moving in the direction that we at RiversetRoses are so passionate about, which is creating a way to be kind to our body’s and to Mother Earth. Owner and designer, Tamara Lipscomb joyfully invests her time and skill into creating something with little harm to us or the environment. We’re so excited to feature her collection! Be on the look out, but if you can’t wait their pages:

Instagram: @cartamebii 

Pintrest: Cartamebii


Check it out, Shop, and have fun! oh and don’t forget to say we sent you!

Cartamebii The Copper Dessert Collection: Wall Hanging

Lose Weight Faster and Smarter with Hiit

There’s no longer a need to stay in the gym for hours at a time and honestly, who really wants to? Start loosing more weight in half the time with Hiit training. Hiit is short for High Interval Training. When you train with Hiit you basically give it your all, like 100%, in short seconds. For example, You may run in place for 20 seconds then switch to high powered jump squats for 60 seconds, and  so on and so on. About 5 different work outs with appropriate reps usually gets the job done.

Try my Hiit workout below:

3 Rounds –> 60 seconds ea. workout –> 15 seconds Rest

  1. Run in Place
  2. Push ups, girl push ups are welcome
  3. Jump Squats (I Love jump Squats)
  4. Abdominal twist
  5. Floor triceps Deeps

Three Easy Smoothies that’ll Make You Reconsider Your Starbucks run

Ready to spice up your mornings with a tasty smoothie alternative? Well, I have just the right options for you.

Faithful Ingredients:

Protein Mix Powder: 2 scoops per serving  (I go between herbal life and a plant based option)

Almond Milk: 1 cup

Ice: 1 cup

Water (I like for water to be the base for every smoothie, adding a half of cup before any other ingredient and if the end product is too thick I add more water create the consistency I like) water is your friend

Other Ingredients vary with smoothie preference

1.Green Smoothie:

Faithful ingredients (refer above)

Spinach or Kale (Spinach has a more inviting taste to me)

1/2 Apple


Matcha mix (What is Matcha and its benefits)

Goji Berris sprinkled on top adds for great texture and appeal (I prefer to have them on the side) (What are Goji Berries?)

Need more sweetness? Add other half of apple

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2. Is it coffee Smoothie:

Faithful Ingredients (refer Above)

Granola (later expand in tummy, helps stay full longer)

1 Banana


Flax seed (Flaxseed Benefits)

Sweet tooth? Try snaking in just  a teaspoon of Agave (yummy)

Whip Cream (Adds the Starbucks affect)

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3. Something Refreshing

Faithful ingredients (Almond Milk should be replaced with Juice listed below)

Mega Antioxidant Juice by Simply Nutritious (Juice Includes: Apple, Carrot, Peach, Lemon juice, grape seed extract, and green tea)

Frozen fruit ( I like  to add Black cherries, but I say get what you like)

Hand full of watermelon chunks


Optional: whip cream, Half an orange, any additional fruit

Just be mindful of sugar  levels, if diabetic I would eliminate some of the additional fruit aside from what is already in juice.

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Important note: If you choose not to use protein powder please use natural alternatives to ensure you get your protein intake. Our bodies are made up of protein and most of us are deficient in the area, so it’s really important that this ingredient is the King Ingredient in your smoothies.


Please Consult with doctor before incorporating daily smoothies 🙂




70 Positive Affirmations To Stay Light on Your Feet and Light in Your Heart

Thanks to our lovely sister site, Happy Black Woman, we are able to walk boldly into the day, releasing all that weighs heavy.

Affirmations are positive statements that paint a mental picture of how you want your life to be. They can be applied to any life situation where you’re struggling: relationships, finances, career, health, purpose… and most powerfully, self-love.


With the hustle and bustle of everyday life your most delicate and inner personal needs can easily get swept beneath the rug which spirals into a whole negative vortex, knowingly by our actions or unknowingly by our results. If you believe that  you are what you say you are then you know the power of words and their fundamental success when applied with affirmations. Affirmations are proven methods of self-improvement because of their ability to rewire our brains, much like exercise. In the sequence of thought-speech-action, affirmations play an integral role by breaking patterns of negative thoughts, negative speech, and, in turn, negative actions.

I embrace success. The words “I can’t” are not in my vocabulary. I refuse to believe my own excuses. I am unstoppable!

We suggest Reading at least One a day or as many as you please, Just Affirm. Stay Positive Girlfriend we’re rooting for you!

  1. I am calm in the face of conflict. I brush annoyances off quickly & easily. I agree to disagree. I am bigger than that!
  2. I choose to radiate love, joy & gratitude today. I know life is too short to dwell on negativity. I walk in the light!
  3. I release my need to impress others. I know that I have nothing to prove. I choose to accept myself just the way I am!
  4. I am free to create my OWN reality. I have choices in all situations. Nothing stands between me and my highest good.
  5. I release my attachment to everything that no longer serves me. I refuse to let anything or anyone hold me back!
  6. I release my need to compare myself to others. I judge myself by my own standards of success. I am ENOUGH just as I am.
  7. I am ready to show the world who I am and what I have to offer. No one can stop me from fulfilling my purpose!
  8. I am making space for more success to come into my life. I let go of my excuses. I am productive & focused on results!
  9. I choose to take responsibility for my own happiness. I will not let anyone “make” me angry today. I am in control!
  10. I am committed to the possibility of my own success. I take action on my goals now so I can have the lifestyle I want.
  11. I honor my need to rest and recharge. I am committed to finding at least one hour of “me” time today!
  12. I am here for a reason. That reason does not include gossip & negativity. I am committed to being a positive influence!
  13. I take my goals seriously. I know that my time here on earth is limited. I honor my life by doing what I love.
  14. I am committed to my own success. I go out of my way to meet people I admire & respect. I am on the path to greatness!
  15. I am comfortable asking for what I want because I know I deserve it. I choose to honor my desires today and always.
  16. I release all negativity from my life. I choose to focus on being positive and productive!
  17. I am thankful for this beautiful day and the infinite possibility it holds. I know something good is going to happen!
  18. I allow myself to be open to new opportunities and possibilities. I am free of believing that my options are limited.
  19. I can achieve whatever I want. I can have what I desire. Everything is possible.
  20. No matter what happens today, I will remember the truth that I am beautiful, powerful and free.
  21. I trust my inner wisdom and intuition. I am the only one who knows what’s best for me.
  22. I am focused on doing what I was put here on earth to do. Everything else is a distraction.
  23. I release my attachment to everything that no longer serves me. I deserve to be happy and free.
  24. Instead of complaining about not having ENOUGH time today, I will use the time I DO have in a way that honors my values and goals.
  25. As soon as I commit to my ideal life, the universe will start moving on my behalf. All I have to do is take the first step.
  26. My life is free from drama and negativity. I surround myself with love and light.
  27. I am brave enough to embrace my true power. I have full control over my life.
  28. Regardless of the situations which confront me, I know that I am blessed. I receive the blessing from every lesson!
  29. I release my desire to be “perfect.” I am already good enough to be loved & accepted. I know I am worthy just as I am!
  30. Forgiveness is a gift I give myself. By forgiving others, I set myself free from pain & suffering. I choose to forgive.
  31. Even if I take a wrong turn, I can find another route. I can get a map & chart a new course. Stopping is not an option!
  32. I am committed to accomplishing my goals, despite all the mistakes I make along the way. I choose to LEARN from them!
  33. I release all feelings of envy. I am destined to live my OWN version of happy that has nothing to do with anyone else.
  34. I will plant only GOOD seeds in the world today. I will not waste even one precious second in anger, hate or jealousy.
  35. I embrace my BEST self today. I choose to live in a way that will bring peace, joy, and happiness to myself and others.
  36. I am right where I need to be. I embrace the challenges & opportunities facing me right now. I choose to learn & grow!
  37. I am the President of my life. I refuse to allow anyone else to play that role. I trust myself to make good decisions.
  38. I release my need to control the future. Instead, I simply focus on allowing the BEST to happen!
  39. I choose to let go of the OLD so that I can finally start making progress with the NEW path I want to take in my life.
  40. I honor my desire to reach my goals. By doing at least ONE thing everyday, I make consistent progress toward my dreams!
  41. Instead of being discouraged by how far I still have left to go, I choose to be grateful for how far I’ve already come.
  42. I know that I was put on earth for a purpose. I choose to honor that purpose today & inspire others to walk their path.
  43. I refuse to allow myself to be overcommitted. I say NO quickly and easily. I protect my “me time” because I deserve it.
  44. I release all feelings of jealousy. I know I am enough & have enough. I don’t have to compete with anyone for anything.
  45. I embrace the infinite possibility of today. I am enthusiastic about life & ready to take inspired action on my goals!
  46. I refuse to allow others to hold me back from doing what I really want to do. I give myself permission to walk MY path.
  47. I accept the truth that the past cannot be changed. I choose to focus on my future and move forward in the light.
  48. I embrace my full potential, even if it makes others uncomfortable. I refuse to play small. I’m meant to do BIG things.
  49. I am no longer afraid of the unknown because I know I can overcome ANY challenge that comes my way. I am invincible!
  50. I choose to be myself & allow others to be themselves. I know I am no better than anyone else. We are ALL on the path.
  51. I release all negative thoughts. I maintain a positive mindset despite challenges. I give myself permission to SHINE!
  52. I embrace this opportunity to be better than I was yesterday. I take responsibility for my choices today and always.
  53. I choose to take action in spite of my fear of failure. No matter what happens, I give myself credit for daring to try.
  54. I am committed to taking action in spite of fear, knowing that all of my needs will be taken care of by the universe.
  55. I have nothing to worry about. I choose to focus only on what I can control. The rest will work itself out for my good.
  56. I don’t need the approval of others because I approve of myself. I know that my approval is the only kind that matters.
  57. I am in the right place at the right time. I am on the right path and I trust myself to make the right decisions.
  58. Instead of judging others, I judge myself on whether I’m being the best I can be. It’s always a better use of my time.
  59. I am in control of my life. I don’t need anyone’s approval before I make a decision. I choose to do what’s best for ME.
  60. I am in charge of my own happiness. I let go of the belief that I need someone to “make” me happy.
  61. I don’t have to wait until I feel “ready” to take action on my goals. The timing will never be perfect. I am ready now.
  62. No one can make me angry. I am responsible for my emotions and reactions. I choose to be at peace.
  63. There is nothing wrong with me. I am not lacking in any way. I am good enough. I have enough. I AM enough.
  64. I know what I want. I know I deserve to have it. I take responsibility for bringing it into my life.
  65. I am beautiful and worthy of every truly beautiful thing.
  66. I am ready to let go of everything that no longer serves me. I choose to walk the bright path to my own happiness.
  67. Fear flows through me but it is not me. I am bigger than fear. I am beyond fear. Fear does not define me. I am not fear.
  68. I am willing to forgive. Forgiving myself and others releases me from the pain of the past. I forgive and I am free.
  69. I accept responsibility for my own happiness. I don’t need anyone or anything to complete me because I am already complete.

Leave a comment: Do you repeat affirmations as part of your morning routine?


Simple Roasted Vegetable Lunch

Just stumbled into the Gluten Free Zone, We Mean Zen, and Discovered the Perfect Simple Roasted Lunch!

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According to Dr. Terry Wahls who healed her Progressive MS with a nutrient dense diet that she specifically designed for her mitochondria and her brain, we should be eating 6-9 cups of leafy greens and colorful vegetables per day. Per DAY. The largest part of our diet should be vegetables. Many people don’t eat 6-9 servings of vegetables in a week.


In fact, here’s a visual of what most American’s yearly diets look like. And don’t let the vegetable category fool you. The most highly consumed vegetables among most Americans are corn and potatoes, which are actually considered a starch, not a vegetable.


Dr. Wahls was diagnosed with MS in 2000, by 2003 she was at stage 2 on heavy duty drugs including chemotherapy to fight the MS. The medications and therapy didn’t help and she continued to get worse. Slowly, each night after seeing patients all day, she began to…

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I Am Not My Hair: 8 Signs You’re Ready for the Big Chop

So you’ve been talking to yourself in the mirror again, complaining to your girlfriends about your “sudden” heat damage, and nearly never wear your real hair anymore. I would even guess you’ve been through a million youtube channels which follows someone’s natural hair journey, right? If this sounds even the slightest bit true, you’re not alone. You’re simply treading that thin line of the natural hair phenomena. According to an article published by Madame Noir, “The hair-care company, Design Essentials, started a study in 2010 to measure the popularity of natural hair. While the number of women who ditched relaxed hair was 26 percent in 2010, it has jumped up big time with a 10 percent increase hitting 36 percent for 2011. Now we can only imagine what those numbers have reached now, three years later. According to USA Today and Mintel, a consumer spending and market research firm, relaxer kit sales have also dropped by nearly 17 percent since 2006.”  “Natural hair has been a movement for several years. What we’re seeing now is a confirmation that this is a lifestyle that is very important to a lot of women,” says Cyntelia Abrams, a marketing coordinator for Design Essentials. So ladies your temptation is nothing more than an on going natural hair revolution. Of course there is always the transitioning option(i.e., gradually growing out your perm) instead of the big chop. That preference solely depends on the woman, but if our opinion matters we say go for the BIG Chop! Cut it all off because then will you be able to truly experience the Euphoric feeling many women discuss along their journey.

Though this is probably quite inspiring,  most women don’t just arrive at the big Chop. They are met with signs.

Eight Signs you are Ready for the BIG CHOP:

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Actress/Model Anna Diop

1. You are always complaining about your real hair– A lot of people tend to reminisce on the way their hair “use to be.” They are always comparing the state of their hair now to the past. Huge sign it’s time to let the past go and start anew.

2. You’re hair is dry, brittle, and suffers from breakage– So many years of heat damage and chemicals your hair just doesn’t seem like it can revive itself. Unfortunately, it’s sort of kind of dead.

3. You admire women who have done the transition or Big Chop. You’re curious about their journey. You ask a lot of questions.

4. Getting a perm no longer sounds appealing to you. After learning the effects of the creamy Crack it’s hard for you to continue the routine.

5. You wear extensions, braids, wigs, etc more than your real hair and not for protective reasons.

6. You’ve been youtubing and googling natural hair journeys. Taking the time to research an idea is a pretty good sign you’re about to possibly embark on something new.

7. You’re fed up with something, largely society and itch for freedom. You just want to be you!

8. You’re Afraid– Fear is a great indicator and a chance to arise to a conscious challenge occurring in the spirit.

I personally did the BC last year, January 2014, and I can testify to the spiritual elevation that took place. My best girlfriend comforted me on the phone while I wined and joked about just cutting it all off. She said two words, “Do It.” Before I knew it the little black noodle strands toppled from every which direction, and there my real hair was, tied inside like a bed of bad lies. Once the weave had been detached from the little hair that was left, I stood in complete awe as tears begin to fall from my eyes. For the first time, I felt free from society impositions of beauty, liberated, and beautiful. No where to hide, but in my truth.

So from one girlfriend to another “DO IT.” You owe it to yourself to grow in your truth to reveal and cultivate your definition of beauty.

Good Luck


Three Vegan Treats That Will Make You Go Bananas!

If you’re like most veggie shoppers, a nice bundle of bananas to adorn the tops of your kitchen counters and fridge is almost an absolute must after every grocery run. Like seriously, what’s a morning without a banana? If you love bananas in your morning smoothie or cinnamon oatmeal, then you are bound to love this article! We’ve found not one, but three ways to bring the yellow peels into your bedroom after 6pm, guilt free! Shhhh….

  1. Peanut Butter Banana ice cream

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While technically this treat isn’t ice cream, the finish creamy consistency allows it to compete regardless of the specifics.  All you need is

rep Time: 3 minutes
Cook Time: 2 hours
Total Time: 2 hours 3 minutes

Servings: 1-2

2 ripe bananas
2 tablespoons peanut butter
Optional: 2 tablespoons almond or soy milk


1. Select two ripe bananas. Note: brown-ish bananas are totally acceptable for this recipe.

Slice the bananas into small pieces.

freeze overnight

4. Once the bananas are frozen, blend them with the peanut butter in a blender or food processor until the texture is smooth and creamy.

Here, you have the option to add almond or soy milk if you prefer a creamier consistency. Don’t panic if you don’t own a blender; mashing the mixture with a fork will do.

5. Pour contents into a bowl, add desired toppings (recommendations include shredded coconut, cacao nibs, honey, and berries), and enjoy.

Note that this ice cream is served as “soft-serve consistency,” so for those who prefer more firm ice cream, stick the contents back into the freezer until hardened.

2. Banana Bread


It’s gluten-free, whole grain and has no refined sugar, and, most importantly, it’s delicious.All you need is

Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 1 hour
Total Time: 1 hour and 10 minutes

Servings: 8

2 ½ cups brown rice flour
½ teaspoon baking soda
1 ½ teaspoon baking powder
½ teaspoon sea salt
½ teaspoon cinnamon
2 flax eggs, beaten
6 ripe bananas, mashed
¼ cup maple syrup (or to taste)
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
¼ cup melted coconut oil (or olive/walnut/canola oil)
½ cup chocolate chips


1. Preheat oven to 350ºF and line a loaf pan with parchment paper (or grease with coconut oil, though I find parchment works much better).
2. In a large bowl, combine brown rice flour, baking soda, baking powder, salt and cinnamon.
3. In a separate bowl, mash banana with a fork (or, if you’re like me and like saving time, use your hands). Mix in eggs, oil, maple syrup and vanilla.
4. Combine wet and dry mixtures, making sure to stir out big chunks of banana.
5. Fold in chocolate chips.

6. Pour batter into pan, top with more chocolate chips, and bake for an hour or until set and golden brown on top.
7. Enjoy plain, topped with nut butter, or with a dollop of ricotta and a drizzle of honey.

3.Chocolate Covered Bananas 


I know you’re thinking it’s getting pretty dangerous in this place, but oh boy will your sweet buds thank you later! All you need is

Prep Time: 5 minutes
Cook Time: 15 minutes
Total Time: 20 minutes

Servings: 4


2 bananas
3 tablespoons almond milk
1 6-oz. bag chocolate chips (whatever kind you want)


1. Peel the bananas and cut them in half, width wise.

2. Place the chocolate and almond milk in a pot and melt on the stove.

3. Using either toothpicks or popscicle sticks, dip the bananas in chocolate. This part gets messy, so use a spoon to help you.

4. Place the dipped bananas on a plate, and put in the fridge for at least three hours.



Are You A Starving Artist Looking For A Free and Loving Thanksgiving Meal?

It’s been an ongoing subtle cliché that the city of Los Angeles is home of the starving artist. Though there are chuckles and giggles and depending with whom you are having the conversation with, maybe even a bit of depression exchanged, it’s an agonizing truth for many. So to help cheer and fill up the starving artist for a day we’ve provided two loving  and well respected avenues for the aspiring starrah to enjoy a free meal for the Holiday. Although we’ve decided to showcase two locations, keeping in mind the artists need of joy, laughter, and a certain demand of health for the big screen or stage, there are multiple locations doing a good deed this Thanksgiving. Try for more options.


Thanksgiving at The Laugh Factory

The Laugh Factory in West Hollywood will provide free Thanksgiving meals for the underprivileged, “struggling and/or lonely” comics, actors, writers, directors, others in the entertainment community and anyone who is alone for the holidays. The Laugh Factory is located at 8001 Sunset Blvd. in Hollywood.




Café Gratitude

The beloved vegan restaurant is inviting  guest with open arms and full plates. Warning guest to arrive early!

Menu: red lentil butternut squash holiday loaf, stuffing, mashed potatoes with mushroom gravy, roasted vegetables, mixed greens, pumpkin pie and apple and pomegranate spritzer.
Hours: 11am-3pm

Price: Free

Reservations: First-come, first-serve